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7 Autumn Activities You Might Not Have Thought About
Autumn gets reduced to the same handful of things every year: a walk in the leaves, a hot drink, maybe a trip to a farm shop. There's nothing wrong with any of that, but there's a lot more you can do with October and November if you're willing to look slightly off the beaten track. These seven ideas don't show up on every list.

Arroe Murphy
11 minutes ago4 min read


Everyone Else Seems To Have It Figured Out (and Why That's Not What's Actually Happening)
That creeping feeling when a friend announces something big and your first thought is about your own life rather than theirs. It happens to almost everyone, and it doesn't make you a bad person. But it can make you miserable if you don't know what you're actually dealing with.

Arroe Murphy
23 hours ago5 min read


5 Gardening Books You Need In Autumn And Winter
The garden has wound down, the to-do list has shrunk to mulching and waiting, and it's the perfect time to actually read about gardening rather than just do it. These five books are worth picking up this autumn and winter, some for practical advice, some for planning inspiration, and one or two to read cover to cover on a rainy Sunday.

Arroe Murphy
2 days ago4 min read


"Parcel Too Large For The Van": What Nobody Tells You About Buying Wholesale As A Small Ebay Reseller
There are problems you expect when you start a small reselling business. A parcel that defeats the delivery van isn't usually one of them. That's what happened to me, and it taught me some things worth knowing before you hand over serious money to a wholesaler.

Arroe Murphy
2 days ago5 min read


I Felt the Kinship Before I Knew the History
I always knew my roots ran deep through Ireland, but I never expected them to lead me to the Choctaw Nation. After feeling an unexplained connection to Native American stories, I discovered an extraordinary act of generosity during the Great Irish Famine — and a friendship between two peoples that has lasted for generations.

Arroe Murphy
4 days ago4 min read


Starting Your Own Blog: Self-Care Blogging Tips
Starting a blog about self-sufficiency and my lifestyle feels like a natural step for me.
It’s a way to share what I’ve learned, what I’m still figuring out, and how I’m trying to live more independently.

Arroe Murphy
6 days ago3 min read


The Easiest Lentil Soup Recipe You'll Make From A Tin
If you've been putting off making lentil soup because you can't be bothered with dried lentils, this is the version for you. Tinned lentils cut the whole thing down to about 25 minutes and the result is genuinely good. Here's exactly how to do it.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 314 min read


5 Autumn Hanging Basket Ideas To Try
Most people pull their hanging baskets down in September and forget about them until May. That's a shame, because autumn is genuinely one of the better seasons for them. Here are five ideas that hold up in cooler weather and still look decent by the front door.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 284 min read


Bible Verse About Forgiveness: The One I Keep Coming Back To When I'm Holding A Grudge
I'll be straight with you: I hold grudges, and I'm working on it. Today I needed a verse about forgiveness that didn't feel breezy or dismissive, so here's the one I keep coming back to, and what it actually means in practice.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 254 min read


10 Things You Can Do With Homegrown Chamomile (that Aren't Just Tea)
Chamomile is one of those plants that earns its space twice over. It's easy to grow, it smells wonderful, and once it starts flowering you'll have more than you can deal with. Here are ten genuinely useful things to try with the harvest.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 245 min read


A Beginner's Guide To Aura Cleansing (With Summer Botanicals)
Aura cleansing has been around in various forms for centuries, but it's had a real resurgence lately and a lot of the beginner content out there is either too woo-woo or too vague to actually be useful. This post covers what an aura is, why people cleanse it, and how to do it practically using plants and herbs you can get hold of right now in summer. No special equipment needed.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 235 min read


How To Make The Best Lavender Candles
If you've always wanted to make beautiful lavender candles at home, this guide will walk you through the method I use. I'll show you how to calculate the right amount of wax for any container, choose the right wick, use an 8% fragrance load, and avoid common beginner mistakes. Whether you're making candles as a hobby or thinking about starting a small business, this step-by-step guide will help you create candles that look great and smell amazing.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 224 min read


A Grief Journaling Protocol For The Summer Months
Everyone talks about grief hitting hardest in winter, and it does, but summer has its own particular difficulty. The light stays too long, everyone around you seems to be having the best time, and there's nowhere to hide. This is a journaling protocol built for that specific pressure.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 215 min read


We Cleared the Whole Bed in One Day | A Day in the Garden
It is not beautiful to garden in. I don’t do my best work in the heat, so we’ve mostly been hiding indoors, and now the cloud’s rolled in I can finally get back out and do something useful.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 204 min read


The Best Vegetarian Chocolates Recipe You Can Make At Home
If you've ever bought a box of fancy chocolates and thought "I could probably make these myself," you're likely right. This post walks through a proper vegetarian chocolate recipe from scratch, including the ganache, the shells, and a few variations worth trying. No tempering machine required.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 194 min read


The Best Citronella Candle Recipe To Make This Summer (I Use Coconut Wax)
Shop-bought citronella candles are usually paraffin, they don't smell great, and half of them barely work. Making your own takes about an hour and the result is genuinely better. Here's the recipe I've settled on after a fair bit of trial and error.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 186 min read


My 10 Favourite Quotes About Happiness
Everyone's got a list of favourite quotes somewhere: a notes app, a tatty journal, or just floating around in their head half-remembered. These are the ten I keep coming back to when I think about what happiness actually is. Some are from philosophers, some are from novelists, and at least one will probably surprise you.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 185 min read


7 Wreath Autumn Ideas (And What Actually Makes Them Look Good)
Autumn wreaths have got a bit out of hand on Pinterest, and half the ideas you'll find there are either wildly complicated or look nothing like the photo once you've made them yourself. These seven ideas are the ones that actually work, buying, making, or somewhere in between.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 165 min read


Which Vegetables Have The Most Protein?
Vegetables don't get much credit for protein, and most of the time that's fair. But some of them do contribute something real, and if you're trying to eat less meat, it helps to know which ones. This isn't about replacing a chicken breast with a courgette. It's about knowing where the useful grams are.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 164 min read


Rethinking Selfishness: The Art of Saying "No" in the Summer
Summer arrives and suddenly your diary fills up before you've even agreed to anything. Everyone wants a piece of your time, and somehow saying no feels worse in June than it does in January. It doesn't have to be that way.

Arroe Murphy
Jul 144 min read
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