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20 Cosy Autumn Quotes from Books and Films for Slow, Quiet Days
Autumn always makes me want to put the kettle on and disappear into a good story. Here are 20 quotes from books and films for days when staying in sounds lovely.

Arroe Murphy
1 day ago6 min read


Living With OCD and Agoraphobia: What a Normal Day Actually Looks Like
Living with OCD and agoraphobia affects almost every part of my day, from food and leaving the house to emails, work and running an eBay business. This is what severe OCD actually looks like in my everyday life — and why I’m trying to build a life alongside it instead of waiting until I’m completely better.

Arroe Murphy
Sep 28 min read


Mending Fences Or Burning Bridges: Us Millennials Really Do Only Do One Or The Other
Millennials get a lot of stick for being emotionally avoidant, but the truth is more specific than that. We don't avoid conflict so much as we handle it in two very distinct ways, with almost nothing in between. This post looks at why that is, and what it actually costs us.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 285 min read


Strange Things We’ve Found in Our 180-Year-Old Cottage Living in Scotland
Living in a 180-year-old Scottish cottage means constantly finding pieces of the people who lived here before us. From Beatrix Potter stepping stones and a mysterious name carved into stone to a naked statue by the pond and Voltarol sealed into a wall, these are some of the strangest things we’ve discovered so far.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 286 min read


Living in Scotland When Your Life Looks Nothing Like You Planned
My life in Scotland looks almost nothing like the future I once imagined. Between building an eBay business, growing grapes in my greenhouse, losing weight and writing music again, I'm learning that an unexpected life doesn't have to be a lesser one.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 246 min read


I Tried eBay Reselling for 5 Weeks… Here’s Exactly What I Made
Meet The Rural Reseller, my brand-new YouTube channel documenting what it really looks like to build an eBay reselling business from scratch in rural Scotland — mistakes, wholesale stock, sales and all.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 162 min read


7 Things That Are Completely Wrong With Millennials (as A Millennial) That Make Us Completely Lovable and Cringe
Millennials cop a lot of criticism. Some of it's fair, most of it's recycled, and almost none of it accounts for the fact that our most annoying habits are also, somehow, our best ones. Here are seven things that are genuinely wrong with us, and why I can't quite bring myself to be sorry about any of them.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 135 min read


Everyone Else Seems To Have It Figured Out (and Why That's Not What's Actually Happening)
That creeping feeling when a friend announces something big and your first thought is about your own life rather than theirs. It happens to almost everyone, and it doesn't make you a bad person. But it can make you miserable if you don't know what you're actually dealing with.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 65 min read


I Felt the Kinship Before I Knew the History
I always knew my roots ran deep through Ireland, but I never expected them to lead me to the Choctaw Nation. After feeling an unexplained connection to Native American stories, I discovered an extraordinary act of generosity during the Great Irish Famine — and a friendship between two peoples that has lasted for generations.

Arroe Murphy
Aug 34 min read
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