20 Quotes About Beginning Again in Your Thirties

Alice Munro once wrote that the early thirties is "an age at which it is sometimes hard to admit that what you are living is your life."

I think that means something differently at 36 than it does at 23. At 23 you can file it under "not yet. Or that won't happen." At 36 the filing cabinet is officially full.

You picked the job, the city, the relationship, the version of yourself you were going to be. Unpicking any of it feels less like growth and more like a failure of a loss.

When the plan you had doesn't work

"In my twenties, I was afraid of everything. In my thirties, I am excited by things."

— Anne Hathaway

"I thought my life was over at 30. At 52, I can see it was only beginning."

— Rich Roll

"You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one."

— Michael McMillian

"Life begins at forty."

— W.B. Yeats

After a relationship ends

"Never feel guilty for starting again."

— Rupi Kaur, The Sun and Her Flowers

"Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it yet."

— L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

"Vitality shows not in the ability to persist, but in the ability to start over."

— F. Scott Fitzgerald, via Quotlr

After a career that no longer fits

"Keep trying and persevering," John McEnroe has said of Jack Nicholson, who got nothing until his thirties.

Henry Ford put it without sentiment: failure is "the opportunity to begin again more intelligently." A functional description of what you actually do next.

Anne Sullivan, writing from experience of having to dismantle her methods and rebuild them: "Starting all over again is not childish — it's the strongest thing a person can do."

"I think your thirties are the time to start getting it right," Cora Reilly has written. That cuts both ways. It applies to someone walking out of a stable job at 31 as much as someone walking into their first real one.

When you feel behind everyone else

"In my mid-thirties I learned that you could change your thinking."

— Matt Dillon

"In your mid-thirties, as a woman, you start to feel more confident. You've left behind all the awfulness of your twenties."

— Caitlin Moran

"No man is a failure who is enjoying life."

— William Feather

"It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves."

— Edmund Hillary

"You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending."

— C.S. Lewis

"What lies behind you and what lies before you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you."

— Ralph Waldo Emerson

"You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream."

— C.S. Lewis

"The beginning is always today."

— Mary Shelley

"Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in autumn."

— F. Scott Fitzgerald

If you are looking for quotes about beginning again in your thirties on a low day rather than a motivated one, these will help.

Most people read quotes like these during a difficult commute or at some point before a meeting they are not sure how to face, or in a moment of 'how long can I keep doing this'.

Pick two. Write them down. Put one somewhere obvious you'll see it every day - your dressing table - maybe. The other somewhere you'll forget - the pocket of an old Autumn coat, perhaps? You find it by accident in six months, when it will probably be more useful than it is now.

Let me know how that feels when it happens. My guess - it'll help.

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